VisualBoyAdvance-M

can someon help me our? two friends an I have tried to start multiplayer for both Kirby and the amazing mirror and The legend of zelda: Four swords.

I forwarded my ports, we all have svn1030, we are all able to log into the server and we can only get as far as "All players have connected" then we dont know what to do? fan someone help please?

attempting network play over an internet connection will slow every player down to the packet rate of the player with the highest ping,

Hmm that seems no good :I